💜 I’m curious but nervous — Is that normal?Updated 3 months ago

Yes, completely.

Feeling nervous — especially about something new, intimate, and personal — is 100% normal. In fact, it’s one of the most common things we hear from first-time GIDDI customers.

The good news? Curiosity and nervousness can coexist — and both are part of a healthy, empowered exploration.

🧠 Why you might feel nervous

• You're trying something new

• It challenges old ideas about pleasure, masculinity, or self-image

• You’re not sure what to expect

• You're worried about doing it “right”

Guess what? There is no one way to explore pleasure — and no perfect timeline. If you’re curious, you’re ready enough.

💡 A few reassuring truths

• You're not alone. Thousands of beginners start their journey with GIDDI every year — many with the exact same feelings.

• You’re in control. Every toy we make is designed to let you set the pace, the intensity, and the experience.

• There’s no shame. Your body, your pleasure, your rules — always.

✅ Tips for getting started when you’re nervous

• Start with a beginner-friendly toy, like Tomo or Vulcan

• Use water-based lube like GIDDI Jelle to make everything more comfortable

• Breathe and go slow — there’s no pressure to “feel something” right away

• Explore solo first if you’re not ready to involve a partner

• Reach out if you need support — our team is here with answers, not judgment